May 16, 2022

Didn't negotiate your job offer? Here's what you can do

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Didn't Negotiate Your Job Offer? Here's What You Can Do

According to a study done by Robert Half, 55% of people negotiated pay at their last job offer, a full 16% jump from the same survey done the previous year. That still leaves 45% of people who did not engage in a salary discussion at their last job. While the offer may be good, recruiters usually under-offer on their first offer to give themselves room to negotiate.

If you didn’t negotiate your last job offer, that’s okay. Here’s what you can do.

There are a couple of different situations. Think about which one you’re in, and we can go from there.

The first situation is that you recently got a job offer and accepted it without negotiating it, and you are about to start the job, or you’ve only recently started the job. Asking to negotiate a job offer that you have recently accepted and signed is one of the fastest ways to get your offer rescinded.

However, this does not mean you cannot “fix” the discrepancy in pay. Our advice is to start the job and do a good job; go about your day and your job the way you would typically, regardless of whether you negotiated. Next, find an advocate within the company. This could be your manager or another more senior individual willing to advocate on your behalf. Thirdly, if you can, find out from your colleagues if your pay is at parity with theirs. While this is a very sensitive subject, it is a topic that is becoming more commonplace to discuss.

If you find that you are paid less than comparable employees, the next step would be to engage the company in a productive and collaborative discussion about pay. You could say to your manager at your weekly 1:1 meeting with them:

“There’s something I’ve wanted to bring up for a while but wanted first to prove my worth at the company. When coming into the job, I didn’t think to negotiate my offer and realized that it may have been a mistake in hindsight. While I love this job, I also care about being paid fairly. I don’t want this to be nagging at the back of my head as I really enjoy this job and would rather focus on the work instead of wondering if folks are being paid more than me. Is this something we can talk about?”

Your manager may or may not be able to have this discussion with you. At the very least, they will send you to HR.

The second situation is that you’ve already been at the job a while, and perhaps you’ve even gone through some raise and promotion cycles. The question on your mind may be, “Shoot, if I did not negotiate my job offer from the beginning, is my pay a grade below my peers, or has the effect compounded by this point?”

These are the next steps we’d advocate. The first step is to find out your market rate. While assessing your market rate is not a science, there are a few things you can do:

  1. Ask your co-workers. 
  2. Check online resources such as, Glassdoor, Payscale, Paysa, and 
  3. Talk to other companies. This is a  more drastic step and requires interviewing at other companies. There is no better way of finding out your market rate than by interviewing and seeing the types of offers you receive and the compensation numbers recruiters are quoting you.

Assuming you want to stay at the company, the next step is to engage the company in a friendly conversation again.

You can say something along the lines of:

“It’s been an incredible three years here. I’ve learned so much and done remarkable things with [insert company name]. I’m here to discuss something that is, hopefully, not uncomfortable. I researched my pay, and I don’t want to feel underpaid. Can we discuss this together?”

We know these discussions are uncomfortable and tricky. But that being said, engaging in a conversation like this could increase your pay (who would say no to an extra $20K a year) and also reflects well on you by showing the employer you’re willing to engage in uncomfortable and difficult conversations. Once you become comfortable with negotiating job offers, you'll learn the vital negotiation acumen to ask for a salary raise.

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